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What are SOTF Events all about?

SOTF events are for members only. These are outings, gatherings, luncheons, dinner and a movie, cook outs, wine or town tours, antiquing junkets, craft sessions, jam sessions, celebrations, destination trips and so much more that occur locally or regionally throughout the country and sometimes nationally. Organized events vary from simple […]

Why “no men” as a rule?

Our events are based around having “me-time” and driving away from the daily grind and responsibilities. Activities center around you, your Sisters and your surroundings. Doing things with your husband and with “the guys” is great. But SOTF events are meant to be a getaway for YOU […]

Why “no kids” as a rule?

Our events are based around having “me-time” and driving away from the daily grind and responsibilities. Activities center around you, your Sisters and your surroundings. Doing things with your kids and grandkids is great. But SOTF events are meant to be a getaway for YOU […]

Are pets allowed at events?

Here is our full “Pet Policy- SOTF Pet Policy Guidelines  

What’s with the “be nice” rule?

The Golden Rule! Women can not be nice sometimes. We ask that all members act kindly and considerately towards one another. Friends can be cliquish but we always want all Sisters to feel included and invited. Any member can attend any event posted on our […]

How is SOTF different than Meet Up sites?

Our organization’s events and gatherings are privately published events. The public does not have access to viewing our planned events nor is the location publicized. All our events can be accessed and viewed on our site by active members only. Signing up is confidential and a […]

Are there fees for Member Events

Fees can vary from FREE to expensive (but well-worth it)! Lots of events are casual local gatherings or short 1/2 day or day-long events and are free to attend. Many are “free” but you are covering all your own, incidental costs. Many have a nominal […]

What’s the Hostess concept with SOTF Events?

Holding a SOTF Event is any Sister’s prerogative and any Sister can organize one! That makes her the hostess of it. She might often have a committee supporting her. Events are often co-hosted by more than one Sister to help with logistics and the “cat-herding.” With the assistance of our Hostess […]

Before joining, can I see what events there are?

As a member, you just log in and go to the EVENTS tab and start searching- all upcoming events and their details are listed there. As a non-member, you cannot see our events. We keep them from public view, for privacy and security purposes (unlike […]

What about alcohol at gatherings?

This is a great question! A non-member acquaintance of mine learned I was a Sister and she said she’d heard it’s big drinking club. It is a big social and friendly club, yes. Like middle school, a sorority or any gaggle of women, you find diverse groups and types within them. […]